this morning my nano was missing, (more than likely the work of two little boys.) resulting in the opportunity for me to do a lot of thinking on my morning run. as they say in beauty & the beast “a dangerous past time, i know”… but, today, i probably needed it. lately i’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed & i thought the time to ponder & self-reflect might do me some good – i might be able to come up with some solutions. yeah, it didn’t really work up out like i planned. i’m still at a total lost & so i turn to you. how do you manage life? okay, i’ll admit, that’s very broad & a little vague. like all of you, i’ve got a lot going on in life. someone might look at me & see simply a mother or a wife, but there’s definitely more to me than that. i’m also an accountant, cook, daughter, concierge, laundress, sister, secretary, entrepreuner, nanny, therapist, seamstress, friend, chaffeur, director of business development, gardener, personal dresser, decorator, handyman, dog walker, teacher, maid… & those are just the titles that spring to mind quickly. the point being, as i mentioned earlier, i’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. and don’t get me wrong, i LOVE my life & wouldn’t change it for the world. i’m not at all complaining, i just need help learning to manage it all. i mean, let’s be honest here… i only have two kids, neither of them are in school & our only extra-curricular activity is swimming. in a couple of years i may (or may not) have a whole herd of children, i’m sure one or two will be in school & i’m almost 99% sure i’m be driving them to a whole slew of activities. so if i feel like i’m dropping the ball now, i don’t even want to think about what it’s going to be like then. so what are your thoughts? suggestions? any self-help books i should read?
& while we’re on the subject… a little bit of an off-shoot i’d like to explore involves blogging. more specifically, how do you manage the whole blogging aspect of life? for example, for me blogging is definitely addicitive. i love having a place where i can post my “thoughts & ramblings about life.” i love being able to conncect with people – friends, family & people i never would have otherwise met. i love being exposed to new & inspiring ideas & i love the connection i feel to the world around me. but, like everything in life, blogging does come without it’s downside. lately i’ve been using a reader, definitely a handy little tool, but sometimes it can get overwhelming (for lack of a better word) when i sign in & i have 250 new posts to read. plus, i’ve found myself getting lazy when it comes to commenting, because it takes a little bit more effort. &, as much as i love reading blogs, i have to be careful. for one thing, it’s so easy to go click, click, click & suddenly i’ve wasted hours, just staring at the computer. not to mention, if i let them, sometimes reading blogs can leave me feeling like i suck. (maybe you know the feeling? you aren’t talented or creative enough? or you feel like a crappy mom, wife or friend?) anyway i’ve totally digressed. basically, i’m just interested in how you like to blog. do you post only when the mood strikes? do you read blogs daily, several times a day, a couple times a week? do you like to comment are you a lurker? what are you’re favorite things about blogging? anything you dislike about it?
oh wow! this post is much longer & much more intense than i ever intended. hopefully i’ll find my nano & will be able to avoid further thinking. in the meantime, what your thoughts on the subject(s)?