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the power of positive thinking.

by @according2kelly on November 9, 2009

there definitely is power in positive thinking. so, i’m surrounding myself with positive energy, good thoughts and all the warm fuzzies & love you’ve sent my way. i’m not going to let life get me down. so pull up a chair & read a quote or two. & if i’ve missed YOUR favorite quote, be sure to let me know. i need all the help i can get. i’m hoping that sending all these positive thoughts out into the universe is going to get me (& a few of you too), through this. in the words of one of my very favorite willie nelson songs: you’ve got to accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative, don’t mess with mister in-between. 

what seems impossible one minute becomes, through faith, possible the next. –norman vincent peale

today is the first day of the rest of your life. –american proverb

we should all do what, in the long run, gives us joy, even if it is only picking grapes or sorting the laundry. -e.b. white
everything happens for a reason. –american proverb

just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly. -anonymous

never let the odds keep you from doing what you know in your heart you were meant to do. -h. jackson brown, jr.

the best is yet to be! –robert browning

never never never give up. –churchill
if you’re going through hell, keep going… –churchill

finish each day and be done with it. you have done what you could. some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. tomorrow is a new day. you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. –ralph waldo emerson

be the change you wish to see in the world… –gandhi

whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. –goethe

overcome the notion that you must be regular. it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary. –uta hagen

go with a spirit that fears nothing! -homer

when one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. –helen keller

have faith in yourself and in the future. -ted kennedy

believe in yourself and all that you are. know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle. -christian d. larson

it’s never too late to be what you might have been. –george eliot

whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. -max ehrmann

do not go where the path may lead. go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. –ralph waldo emerson

find life experiences and swallow them whole. travel. meet many people. go down some dead ends and explore dark alleys. try everything. exhaust yourself in the glorious pursuit of life. –lawrence k. fish

whatever you are, be a good one. –abraham lincoln
go into the world and do well. but more importantly, go into the world and do good. -minor myers r. 
life does not put things in front of you that you are unable to handle. -unknown
life isn’t about finding yourself. life is about creating yourself. -unknown
i think i can. i think i can. i know i can. i know i can. -the little engine that could
anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed. the fact is that most putts don’t drop, most beef is tough, most children grow up to be just like people, most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration, and most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. life is just like an old time rail journey … delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. the trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride. –gordon b. hinckley

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the truth about motherhood.

by @according2kelly on July 9, 2009

going on month number two in little charlie’s life, i still find myself pretty much housebound. that’s right, i haven’t quite gotten the hang of taking three kids out on the town. & as much as i’d prefer to be crafting, holding my little baby, doesn’t leave much time for projects. so, these days i find myself watching lots of tv. did you happen to catch oprah’s the truth about motherhood episode? maybe it’s just the stage (of life) i’m in right now, but i swear the entire show was the extension of an on-going conversation playing inside my head. everything they said, i could totally relate to… “oprah is saluting moms everywhere and letting them know they have support. ‘we hear from mothers all the time who say they feel alone. they feel overwhelmed; they feel sometimes inadequate. and you say you’re afraid to admit the truth for fear of bing judge,” oprah says. ‘so today we’re creating a judgment-free zone, a sisterhood of motherhood where anything goes.”

when they said “the expectations we have on ourselves is completely unrealistic. this generation of women was raised to believe that we should and could do it all… and that list (of expectations) is so huge that we think if we can’t live up to that, then we’re not good moms.” i wanted to shout: AMEN! & i couldn’t agree more with the idea that “the one universal truth about motherhood seems to be that no one ever tells you what to really expect.” so, today, i too am “creating a judgment-free zone, a sisterhood of motherhood where anything goes”. & although i LOVE being a mom, (i really, really do!), sometimes, i wish i had been more prepared for motherhood, if you know what i mean. so, here are some of the truths about motherhood, that no one remembered to tell me. maybe someone else can benefit, or possibly at least relate…

* every woman doesn’t LOVE being prego. there definitely are some women who do, but i wasn’t one of them. i hated getting fat, i never had that “pregnancy glow”. all in all, pregnancy isn’t exactly my favorite stage in life.
* recovery AFTER the delivery can sometimes be harder, and worse, than the actual delivery. (i was put on bed rest for 6 weeks after i had gavin.)
* stay in the hospital as long as possible. you might be bored & lonely, but when you go home, you’re on your own. at least in the hospital you can call a nurse for help.
* i must not have paid very good attention during health class, because i did not realize i would bleed for weeks. (a bit personal, i know, but a truth about motherhood that i did not know.)
* breastfeeding might be natural, but it is definitely NOT easy & often times it can be painful
* hemorrhoids, ‘nuf said!
* your boobs will never be perfect again… they’ll get super huge (& probably painful while engorged), & then they’ll shrink down, practically becoming indentations.
* just because you carried the baby for nine months, doesn’t mean you can soothe & quiet them when they are screaming bloody murder, for hours & hours on end.
* sometimes, you’ll go days without showering. a pony tail will become your new ‘do, a hat your new best friend, & you can go hours without realizing you haven’t eaten anything.
* finding the energy & time to do all the things you “used” to do isn’t going to be easy
* sleeping more than 2 hours in a row should be considered a luxury
* getting the time & energy to clean the house, fold the laundry, or load the dishwasher will make you feel like you’ve won the lottery
* counting the number of wet & dirty diapers will become your new hobby
* you’ll find yourself thinking “of a day as units of time, each unit consisting of no more than thirty minutes. Full hours can be a little bit intimidating and most activities take about half an hour. Taking a bath: one unit, watching countdown: one unit, web-based research: two units, exercising: three units, having my hair carefully disheveled: four units. It’s amazing how the day fills up. (especially when you are feeding the baby every 6 units!)”via about a boy.
* in the end, holding your little baby, seeing them smile, hearing them laugh… will make you forget everything else, as though it never happened, & make you willing to possibly, do it all over again.
edited to add:
* i always knew i was going to breastfeed, i just was never prepared for how much i could (and would) leak. i didn’t realize that i could soak through my shirt, even while wearing a nursing pad.
* i wasn’t prepared for being man-handled by everyone. i didn’t realize that i would also get used to totally strangers grabbing & “feeling up” my boobs.

so, your turn. what are some of the truths about motherhood that you wished someone had told you? what’s the real scoop on motherhood?


currently loving…

by @according2kelly on June 29, 2009

i spotted THIS print on decor8 & fell in love immediately.


beauty advice from gwyn…

by @according2kelly on June 3, 2009

“beauty, to me, is about being comfortable in your own skin. that, or a kick-ass red lipstick.”
gwyneth paltrow


in the words of the fabulous judy garland…

by @according2kelly on May 26, 2009

“always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.”


soon, i’ll be breaking out my mickey ears.

by @according2kelly on April 9, 2009

a couple of nights ago i had the opportunity to get together with several women entrepreneurs. we chatted, we snacked & we learned a TON thanks to two incredible women, heather fish & patty vogan. both are amazingly successful business women & are just as superhero-like in real life. the night was incredibly powerful. &, there is no way i can possibly convey all that happened. but, whether or not you are business-minded, anyone & everyone can benefit from what i feel is a very important lesson they both stressed over & over… always, always, always stay true to yourself & your goals. whether it’s in business or simply in life, decide now what your ultimate goal is, what your desired end-result is, & work backwards – figure out HOW to get there, don’t just let it happen. as patty says “life is always a fun adventure live it by DESIGN not DEFAULT!”

if just a couple of hours one night can have had such a profound impact, i can’t even imagine what will result from an entire weekend. you & i both know that i love any excuse to spend time at the happiest place on earth. but this particular weekend, you just might want to join me. if you’re in the southern california area, or if you’re willing to hop on a plane or in your car & head on down to the oc, & you’re interested in meeting some incredible women, networking & learning about marketing to women online, then you definitely want to sign up for THIS. i’ll be there. i’ll be very very pregnant, but i wouldn’t miss it for the world. & maybe, i’ll even wear my mickey ears.


something to live by…

by @according2kelly on March 18, 2009

i’m loving THIS free download from ReadyMade Magazine. i think it might just be my new motto for life. as confucius once said “life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.”

today is beautiful. i think, just maybe, i need to throw out the list of to-dos & chores, and just stop to smell the roses. care to join me?


guide to happiness.

by @according2kelly on September 10, 2008

i love real simple’s article 48 ways to be nice & improve the world around you… it’s a list full of easy (& often times effortless) ways you can do a little good in the world. one of my personal favorite tips? “when someone leaves a pie plate or a casserole dish at your house, return it with something tasty inside.”


happiness is the way.

by @according2kelly on August 18, 2008

happiness is a journey, not a destination. for a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin – real life. but there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. at last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. this perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. happiness is the way. so treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one. – souza


maybe tomorrow…

by @according2kelly on July 23, 2008

you pile up enough tomorrows,
and you’ll find you are left
with nothing but a lot of empty yesterdays.
i don’t know about you,
but I’d like to make today worth remembering.
– prof. harold hill, in the music man